jarful of randomness

Q: What it's like to be missing someone?
A: 1) you fill your mind with that person every second of the day
2) you try to relate everything you see, hear, smell and touch to that someone, like how a passer-by look so much alike to him
3) you'll wear at least one accesories that has a special meaning between you and him, just to make his absence more bearable
4) you try to relive the times you'd spent with him, knowing full well that it'll get you nowhere
5) you are constantly smiling to yourself, when one of his silly jokes or gestures pops into your mind
6) your heart is suffocated by the feeling of missing him, but if it's the only way to stay connected to him, you'd rather be drowning in this misery anyway
7) every song that you hear reminds you of him
8) every activities that you plan on doing, you'd wish he was doing it alongside with you
9) you constantly stare at your phone, hoping every blink of the screen brings you a text message from him
10) you despise the saying " absence makes hearts grow fonder", because you know it's not true
11) you get mad at yourself for forgetting little things that he'd said or done

Q: When is the last time you'd been to Secret Recipe and tried on a new flavour of cake?
A: Never? Well, it's probably time to ditch the same old Chocolate Banana and try something else. Life is too short to just stick to the same old routine. Take time to look though the choices of cakes available instead of ordering the same flavour of cake straight away without looking into the menu. Who knows, maybe you'll find a new love?

Q: Have you ever divide your life into perspectives?
A: Do you take 'traveling around in a car' for granted? If you would put your point of view into a motorcyclist's, you'll find there's an entirely different world out there. If it rains, as a motorist, the first thing in mind is to look for a bridge so you could stay under, trying to shield yourself from the wetness. Same goes for everything else, it's cliche, but try looking things from another perspective, you'll discover a whole new world.

Q: Do you know how refreshing it is to be impulsive sometimes?
A: How many little things on your to-do list that has been staying there for years yet you never seem to get it done, like calling up an old friend, reading a novel that you once dying to read or doing spring cleaning? Most of the time, you give excuses to yourself just to ignore those little things in life. But it's time to step up and just do it. Go show up at your friend's doorstep and go out for a drink, head to a bookshop and buy that novel or just dig out the broom and start wiping away the dust. Life is too short to keep on waiting!

With love,
KC